Toddler
When should my toddler start talking?
The typical trajectory
- Around 12 months: first meaningful words — used consistently for the same thing, even if only family recognises them.
- By 18 months: roughly 20+ words, and understanding far ahead of speech — following simple instructions matters as much as talking.
- By age 2: two-word combinations ("more milk", "daddy gone").
- By 3–4: strangers understand most of what they say.
The range around each marker is genuinely wide, and late talking alone often resolves — but "often" is doing careful work in that sentence, which is why the next section matters.
Don't wait-and-see alone
If your toddler has few words at 18–24 months, two moves beat waiting:
- Book a hearing test. Glue ear — fluid behind the eardrum after colds — is one of the most common and most fixable causes of speech delay, and it's invisible from the outside.
- Tell your health visitor and ask about local speech and language therapy drop-ins; self-referral is possible in many areas, and early support improves outcomes whatever the cause turns out to be.
Meanwhile, flood daily life with low-pressure language: narrate what you're doing, pause to leave space, offer choices ("apple or banana?") rather than quizzes ("say apple!").
Go deeper: My child isn’t talking yet — Autism Parent Guide (our sister site)
Health answers describe NHS guidance and are not medical advice — for anything urgent, call 111 (or 999 in an emergency). Spotted something out of date? Email editors@clevermum.co.uk.