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What do I actually need for a newborn?

Q: What do I actually need for a newborn?

Less than the lists say: somewhere safe to sleep (crib + new firm mattress), a car seat, 5–7 sleepsuits and vests, nappies and cotton wool, a couple of muslins, feeding kit for your route, and a pram or carrier. Everything else — wipe warmers, changing tables, shoes — is optional. Spend the savings on a good pushchair and takeaways.

The genuine essentials

Safe sleep: a crib, cot or Moses basket with a new, firm, flat mattress — the mattress is the one thing safer-sleep guidance says to buy new, not second-hand.
Travel: an R129 infant car seat (non-negotiable for the hospital drive home) and a pram, travel system or carrier — see our pushchair guide for choosing by lifestyle rather than showroom.
Clothing: 5–7 sleepsuits and vests in newborn plus a few 0–3 months. Babies live in sleepsuits; "outfits" are for photos.
Changing: nappies, cotton wool, a changing mat. Any flat surface works — the table is furniture, not equipment.
Feeding: kit for your route — nursing bras and breast pads, or bottles, a steriliser and formula. Not both ranges "just in case".
A couple of muslins — burp cloth, sunshade, emergency bib, comforter.

Confidently skippable

Wipe warmers, nappy disposal machines with branded cassettes, changing tables, newborn shoes, a "full set" of bottles before knowing if baby takes that teat, and most of any 40-item checklist published by a shop. Second-hand covers clothes, toys and even prams beautifully — the exceptions are the car seat and the mattress, which you buy new. Put the savings toward the pushchair, where quality genuinely shows.

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Health answers describe NHS guidance and are not medical advice — for anything urgent, call 111 (or 999 in an emergency). Spotted something out of date? Email editors@clevermum.co.uk.